Never have I ever questions are the quickest way to learn surprising things about the people around you. One player says something they have never done, and everyone who has done it owns up. Below are 200 clean statements sorted into eight themes: travel, food, school, funny, embarrassing but harmless, adventure, family and holidays, plus a random picker so the game never stalls.
All of these statements are written for teens, friends and family groups, so you can play at a sleepover, a family reunion or an office party without worrying about awkward moments.
How to play never have I ever
- Hold up ten fingers. Every player starts with both hands raised and all ten fingers showing.
- Make a statement. The first player says "Never have I ever" followed by something they have truly never done, such as "Never have I ever been on an airplane."
- Fingers down. Anyone who has done that thing puts one finger down. The speaker keeps all their fingers up, since they have not done it.
- Share the story. Players who put a finger down can be asked for the quick story behind it. This is optional, but it is where the best laughs come from.
- Pass the turn. Play moves to the left. The last player with at least one finger still up wins.
Statements must be true for the speaker. The clever strategy is to pick something you have never done but most other players probably have, such as never having seen snow if you grew up somewhere warm.
Random never have I ever picker
Tap for a random statement, or choose a category to keep the game on one theme. The picker is handy when it is your turn and your mind goes blank.
All 200 never have I ever questions
Travel
- Never have I ever been on an airplane.
- Never have I ever slept on a train overnight.
- Never have I ever visited another country.
- Never have I ever missed a flight or a train.
- Never have I ever gotten lost in a new city.
- Never have I ever been on a cruise ship.
- Never have I ever gone camping in a tent.
- Never have I ever traveled somewhere by myself.
- Never have I ever seen the ocean.
- Never have I ever been to a theme park.
- Never have I ever fallen asleep on a bus and missed my stop.
- Never have I ever packed for a trip the night before.
- Never have I ever forgotten my toothbrush on a trip.
- Never have I ever taken a road trip longer than ten hours.
- Never have I ever stayed in a hotel with a pool.
- Never have I ever ridden a horse on vacation.
- Never have I ever seen snow in person.
- Never have I ever been to a desert.
- Never have I ever tried to speak a language I did not know while traveling.
- Never have I ever gone to the wrong gate at an airport.
- Never have I ever sent a postcard.
- Never have I ever been on a boat.
- Never have I ever visited a national park.
- Never have I ever slept in a car on a road trip.
- Never have I ever bought a souvenir I never used.
Food
- Never have I ever eaten pizza for breakfast.
- Never have I ever tried sushi.
- Never have I ever eaten something that fell on the floor.
- Never have I ever eaten an entire pizza by myself.
- Never have I ever burned toast.
- Never have I ever cooked a full meal for my family.
- Never have I ever put ketchup on something unusual.
- Never have I ever ordered a dish I could not pronounce.
- Never have I ever eaten dessert before dinner.
- Never have I ever eaten cereal for dinner.
- Never have I ever dropped my ice cream cone.
- Never have I ever eaten a whole chili pepper.
- Never have I ever baked cookies from scratch.
- Never have I ever eaten food from a food truck.
- Never have I ever licked the bowl after baking.
- Never have I ever hidden vegetables in my napkin.
- Never have I ever eaten something so spicy that my eyes watered.
- Never have I ever eaten the last cookie and blamed someone else.
- Never have I ever set off the smoke alarm while cooking.
- Never have I ever eaten breakfast in bed.
- Never have I ever eaten a whole bag of popcorn in one sitting.
- Never have I ever gone back for thirds.
- Never have I ever eaten a fruit I had never seen before.
- Never have I ever made a sandwich with more than five fillings.
- Never have I ever grown my own vegetables.
School
- Never have I ever fallen asleep in class.
- Never have I ever left my homework at home.
- Never have I ever been sent to the principal's office.
- Never have I ever gotten a perfect score on a test.
- Never have I ever forgotten my locker combination.
- Never have I ever called a teacher Mom or Dad by accident.
- Never have I ever pretended to be sick to skip school.
- Never have I ever won a school award.
- Never have I ever been in a school play.
- Never have I ever gotten lost in my own school.
- Never have I ever had a crush on a classmate.
- Never have I ever been late to school three times in one week.
- Never have I ever stayed up all night to finish a project.
- Never have I ever eaten lunch in the library.
- Never have I ever broken something in a science lab.
- Never have I ever forgotten my lines on stage.
- Never have I ever taken the class pet home for the weekend.
- Never have I ever run for class president.
- Never have I ever laughed so hard in class that I got in trouble.
- Never have I ever worn my shirt backward to school.
- Never have I ever lost a library book.
- Never have I ever studied for the wrong test.
- Never have I ever raised my hand and forgotten what I wanted to say.
- Never have I ever had a snow day.
- Never have I ever fallen asleep on the school bus.
Funny
- Never have I ever laughed so hard that my drink came out of my nose.
- Never have I ever talked to myself in the mirror.
- Never have I ever sung loudly in the car with the windows down.
- Never have I ever waved at someone who was waving at someone else.
- Never have I ever walked into a glass door.
- Never have I ever pretended to be on the phone to avoid someone.
- Never have I ever laughed at a joke I did not understand.
- Never have I ever tripped over nothing.
- Never have I ever said "you too" when a server said "enjoy your meal".
- Never have I ever danced when I thought no one was watching.
- Never have I ever had a full conversation with a pet.
- Never have I ever pushed a door that said pull.
- Never have I ever fallen off a chair.
- Never have I ever worn two different shoes by accident.
- Never have I ever sent a text to the wrong person.
- Never have I ever searched my own name online.
- Never have I ever forgotten someone's name right after meeting them.
- Never have I ever practiced an award speech in the shower.
- Never have I ever made up a song about my pet.
- Never have I ever looked for my phone while holding it.
- Never have I ever snorted while laughing.
- Never have I ever fallen asleep in a really funny position.
- Never have I ever tried to whistle and failed.
- Never have I ever named a houseplant.
- Never have I ever laughed so hard I could not breathe.
Embarrassing but harmless
- Never have I ever called someone by the wrong name.
- Never have I ever had something stuck in my teeth all day without knowing.
- Never have I ever been caught singing to myself.
- Never have I ever worn my shirt inside out all day.
- Never have I ever had my stomach growl loudly in a quiet room.
- Never have I ever fallen asleep on a bus and woken up on a stranger's shoulder.
- Never have I ever tripped going up the stairs in front of people.
- Never have I ever replied to a group chat with a message meant for one person.
- Never have I ever said "love you" by accident when hanging up a call.
- Never have I ever mispronounced a word for years.
- Never have I ever gotten my hair stuck in a zipper.
- Never have I ever been caught talking to myself.
- Never have I ever forgotten the words while singing in front of people.
- Never have I ever walked into the wrong classroom or meeting.
- Never have I ever had a parent embarrass me in front of my friends.
- Never have I ever fallen asleep at a party.
- Never have I ever laughed during a serious moment.
- Never have I ever spilled a drink on myself at a fancy event.
- Never have I ever had a haircut so bad that I wore a hat for a week.
- Never have I ever gotten stuck in a sweater while taking it off.
- Never have I ever sent a voice message by accident.
- Never have I ever clapped when nobody else did.
- Never have I ever lost a shoe in the mud.
- Never have I ever been the only person in costume at a party.
- Never have I ever waved back at someone I did not know.
Adventure
- Never have I ever gone zip lining.
- Never have I ever been on a roller coaster that goes upside down.
- Never have I ever gone snorkeling.
- Never have I ever climbed a mountain.
- Never have I ever gone skiing or snowboarding.
- Never have I ever jumped into a lake.
- Never have I ever gone kayaking or canoeing.
- Never have I ever ridden a camel.
- Never have I ever slept outdoors without a tent.
- Never have I ever gone white water rafting.
- Never have I ever tried rock climbing.
- Never have I ever explored a cave.
- Never have I ever been up in a hot air balloon.
- Never have I ever held a snake.
- Never have I ever stood up on a surfboard.
- Never have I ever gone on a night hike.
- Never have I ever seen a bear in the wild.
- Never have I ever driven a go kart.
- Never have I ever tried ice skating.
- Never have I ever watched the sunrise from a mountain top.
- Never have I ever done a cartwheel in public.
- Never have I ever camped in the snow.
- Never have I ever jumped at a trampoline park.
- Never have I ever built a raft.
- Never have I ever caught a fish.
Family
- Never have I ever broken something and blamed a brother or sister.
- Never have I ever forgotten a family member's birthday.
- Never have I ever been to a family reunion.
- Never have I ever had a sleepover at my grandparents' house.
- Never have I ever helped cook a holiday meal.
- Never have I ever fallen asleep during family movie night.
- Never have I ever won family game night.
- Never have I ever cut my own hair.
- Never have I ever gotten lost in a store as a kid.
- Never have I ever hidden to jump out and surprise my parents.
- Never have I ever pretended to be asleep to get out of chores.
- Never have I ever eaten a sibling's snack without asking.
- Never have I ever argued over the TV remote.
- Never have I ever taken a family photo where everyone was laughing.
- Never have I ever read a bedtime story to a younger relative.
- Never have I ever learned a recipe from a grandparent.
- Never have I ever pretended to love a gift.
- Never have I ever been grounded.
- Never have I ever dressed up in my parents' clothes.
- Never have I ever built a blanket fort with my family.
- Never have I ever sung happy birthday off key on purpose.
- Never have I ever lost a game on purpose so a younger kid could win.
- Never have I ever called my mom by my grandma's name.
- Never have I ever gone on a family road trip.
- Never have I ever shared a bedroom with a brother or sister.
Holidays
- Never have I ever peeked at my presents before the holiday.
- Never have I ever stayed up until midnight on New Year's Eve.
- Never have I ever decorated a Christmas tree.
- Never have I ever carved a pumpkin.
- Never have I ever gone trick or treating.
- Never have I ever made a New Year's resolution and kept it.
- Never have I ever eaten too much at Thanksgiving.
- Never have I ever worn an ugly holiday sweater.
- Never have I ever regifted a present.
- Never have I ever hunted for Easter eggs.
- Never have I ever built a gingerbread house.
- Never have I ever sent holiday cards.
- Never have I ever watched fireworks on the Fourth of July.
- Never have I ever celebrated Diwali.
- Never have I ever celebrated a holiday from another culture.
- Never have I ever fallen asleep before midnight on New Year's Eve.
- Never have I ever gone caroling.
- Never have I ever made a homemade Valentine's card.
- Never have I ever held a sparkler.
- Never have I ever worn a Halloween costume that was way too hot.
- Never have I ever eaten so much Halloween candy that I felt sick.
- Never have I ever put up holiday lights.
- Never have I ever been to a holiday parade.
- Never have I ever made a snow angel.
- Never have I ever counted down the days to a holiday on a calendar.
Variations
- Points version: instead of fingers, everyone starts with ten tokens such as buttons or paper clips and drops one in the middle for each thing they have done. Use our scorekeeper if you prefer points.
- Five fingers: for a faster game, start with one hand only.
- Stand up, sit down: everyone stands, and anyone who has done the thing sits down for the rest of that round. Good for classrooms.
- Themed rounds: play only travel or holiday statements, which fits well at Thanksgiving and other family gatherings.
Tips for a fun game
- Agree on the tone first. Before you start, agree that statements stay friendly and nobody targets one player.
- Never force a story. If someone does not want to explain a finger, let it go.
- Mix easy and rare. Easy statements keep everyone involved, while rare ones create the big reveals.
- Write your own. Statements about shared places and memories, such as your school, your street or your last family trip, make the game feel personal.
Looking for more question games? Try two truths and a lie, our list of would you rather questions or more icebreaker games for new groups.
Questions people ask
How do you play never have I ever?
Everyone holds up ten fingers. Players take turns saying something they have never done, starting with "Never have I ever". Anyone who has done it puts a finger down, and the last player with fingers still up wins.
What are good never have I ever questions?
Good statements are things the speaker has truly never done but many others probably have, such as never having been on a cruise or never having burned toast. They lead to quick stories without embarrassing anyone. The list above has 200 clean options in eight themes.
Is never have I ever OK for kids and teens?
Yes, when you use clean statements like the ones on this page. They are about travel, food, school, family and funny moments. Agree before the game that statements stay friendly and nobody is singled out.
What are some funny never have I ever questions?
Try "Never have I ever pushed a door that said pull" or "Never have I ever waved at someone who was waving at someone else." The funny and embarrassing but harmless sections above are full of relatable moments that get big laughs.
Can you play never have I ever with friends online?
Yes. Play on a video call with everyone holding fingers up to the camera, or keep score in a shared note. Use the random picker on this page so whoever is speaking always has a statement ready.